My suggestion would be not force yourself to do anything until you are ready to do it

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My suggestion would be not force yourself to do anything until you are ready to do it.<br>Many wives worry that if they deny their husband's sex after the affair, then he is going to be more likely to go back to or attempt to get it from the other woman. While I do understand this, responding to these worries by forcing yourself to do something that you don't enjoy is just as risky as holding off, in my opinion. I believe that it's better to wait until there's no question that you can't keep your hands off of each other.<br><br>You will know that he was willing to wait because you are worth it and he will know that your feelings are not forced or fake.<br>While many wives think that their husband's have no idea that they aren't enjoying themselves during sex, I suspect that he knows more than you might think, but sometimes he is hoping that if you continue on, that this will work itself out.<br>Regaining Your Emotional And Sexual Confidence: Many people know and understand that your sexual confidence takes a blow after your spouse has an affair, but few acknowledge or address their emotional confidence. It's very likely that you have some self doubt as to where you may have contributed to his affair or fallen short as a wife.<br><br>You may be struggling with your own self doubt as well as doubting how he truly feels about you. All of these things can create the perfect storm to negatively affect any interactions that you might be having (and this includes sex.)<br>Sometimes, you are at a place where you can't or just don't trust what he's telling you. He might be saying that you are still beautiful to him and that he would do anything to regain your trust. He may be coming right home after work and he may seem willing to give you what you've asked for.<br><br>And, yet those nagging doubts and insecurities are still there because you wonder if it is all for show or to catch you off guard when he cheats again. Needless to say, it's almost going to be impossible to enjoy the give and take that goes hand in hand with sex when you are having these conflicting feelings.<br>So where does that leave you?<br>It leaves you with both emotional and physical issues to fix. You have to understand that one is intimately tied to the other and that, when one suffers, so does the other. You can't have a fulling sexual relationship with your spouse if you don't trust or aren't connected to them emotionally.<br><br>Does this mean that you should or have to swear off sex until you repair your marriage after infidelity? Not necessarily.<br>But I would suggest not being shy about any thing that is still bothering you. Remaining silent and [http://Www.Alexa.com/search?q=continuing&r=topsites_index&p=bigtop continuing] to be hurt and robbed of enjoyment isn't really fair to either of you. It is absolutely possible to enjoy sex again after your husband's affair, but sometimes, time alone is not enough to make this happen. You often need to be very proactive about reclaiming what is yours - and that includes your husband, your own self esteem, and your own marriage.<br><br><br>I can't deny that sex was an issue for us after my husband's affair. At first, I just went through the motions and pretended like nothing was wrong, but I eventually realized that this wasn't helping matters. Eventually, I became very proactive about my restoring my sexual confidence after his affair and this made all the difference.<br>If it helps, you can read more about how I did this on my blog at website Sex Again After Infidelity: Is It Possible?<br><br>In case you liked this information as well as you would want to receive more details relating to [http://www.pornofrikis.com/ porno frikis] kindly check out our page.
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